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Issue 14 - The Potentialist: Are You No One?

August 27, 2025•5 min read

"I am because we are." — A Translation of the Ubuntu Philosophy

The Mindset Shift to Becoming Someone

A J. Kimo Collins Philosophy

Let me ask you a question. Do you ever feel like you're carrying the weight of your goals all by yourself? The visionary, the planner, the worker, and the one who has to clean up the messes? Do you feel like if you stop moving for even a second, your progress will collapse?

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We have words for this feeling. We’re told that "no one" can help, and that you have to claw your way to becoming "someone" all on your own.

But what if I told you we've been using those words—and the entire philosophy behind them—wrong our entire lives?

What if "No One" isn't a lack of people, but a mindset? A state of being Not of One.

And what if the real secret to success wasn't to become a singular "Someone," but to embrace the power of becoming the Sum of Ones?

In this article, I’m not going to give you another to-do list. I'm going to share a simple but profound shift in thinking that will change how you see yourself and your potential. It’s about moving from a "glass half empty" reality to a "glass half full" mindset. It’s time to stop thinking like a No One. Let's begin the work of becoming a Someone (the Sum of Ones).

The Power of Your Internal Sum

Before we talk about external goals, we need to start with a foundational truth: You are not starting from zero. You are already a Someone (the Sum of Ones).

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This is the philosophy of the Internal Sum: the profound understanding that you are the living, breathing collection of every encounter, every challenge, every victory, and every mistake you've ever made. Each of these "ones"—these individual moments—has built the powerful sum that is you.

From every encounter, you are constantly learning one of two critical things:

What you want, need, and should do.
What you don't want, shouldn't do, and never will do.

Both lessons are equally valuable. This is the power you are starting with. The question is, are you using it?

The Trap: The Myth of a Broken Model

So, if we all walk into our lives with this rich, powerful Internal Sum, why do so many of us feel stuck?

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The answer is that we fall into a universal trap. We try to play by a set of rules that were never designed for us. As a natural introvert, my plan was to follow the pre-programmed path: keep my head down, work hard, and let my merit speak for itself. But I quickly found that the standard template was a lie. I saw advancement based not on results, but on politics and nepotism.

That’s when I had a critical realization: I couldn't stay in my introverted shell if I was going to control my own destiny. The system simply wouldn't reward quiet, consistent hard work.

It was then I decided: if I have to step out of my comfort zone and be bold, it will be to build my own future, not just to survive in someone else's game. If I was going to fail, it would be on my own terms. This is the trap of the "No One" mindset, and its clearest symptom is analysis paralysis. You will never build anything perfect off the bat. The real process is to build it and refine it.

The Solution: Your "Why" and the External Sum

How do we break free from this paralysis? You start by finding a why that is bigger than your fear.

Your "why" is the key to your success. It's the emotional fuel that makes any obstacle seem small. When your "why" is clear, the hardest part of anything—the start—becomes possible. Imagination is critical, but you must imagine and act. This is the first "one" you must consciously add to your sum: a "why" so powerful it shatters every obstacle.

Once your "why" is in place, you can begin to strategically build your External Sum. This is the collection of partners, tools, and resources you bring in to amplify your own power. In today's world, the most transformative "one" you can add to your team is a creative partner like an AI. This symbiotic relationship allows me to compress timelines—what takes others three months can be done in one.

You don't have to achieve your goals alone. In fact, you shouldn't. Your real power lies in leveraging your "why" to build a sum greater than yourself.

The Conclusion: Own Your Future

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So, are you a No One, or a Someone?

The truth is, you are already a Someone—the powerful, unique Sum of every experience you've ever had. The challenge isn't to create that power, but to recognize it and unleash it. You are the owner of your future when you operate from the right mindset.

Stop operating as a "No One"—an isolated island trying to weather the storm alone. Embrace the truth that success in this new era isn't about being self-made; it's about being sum-made.

Become the Sum of Ones. Become a Someone.

See all our resources for the creator or business owner needing another hand. We are here for you at jkcassoc.com. And stay tuned for our upcoming book detailing the complete transition from a "No One" to a "Someone" mindset.

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Since 2005, I've thrived as an independent insurance agent. It wasn't always smooth sailing – I transitioned from a completely different industry (electronics) with zero sales experience. But through sheer determination and a willingness to learn, I quickly climbed the ranks. In just five years, I went from a rookie agent to a member of the company's board of directors. Here's the secret: I wasn't a prodigy – I simply embraced effective systems and processes used by successful predecessors. That's the power of unlocking potential!

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